Wednesday, October 15, 2014

20 years ago today



It was 20 years ago today that the Former Boyfriend and I went to Royal American Links to get married. It was quite a party. There are so many of you reading this that have been with us through this whole adventure – Thanks for supporting us and encouraging us.  20 years is pretty sweet and made even more so because of the past year and a half.  Life happens.

I don’t even try to imagine what my life would have been like without the Former Boyfriend. It’s just something that I don’t even want to contemplate.  I’ve never been good with words and I can’t even begin to articulate the way I feel about my Husband, the love I have for him, and the amount of fun I have when I’m with him.  Thanks Former Boyfriend for taking the vows with me.  The wonderful part is the excitement and the anticipation and the looking forward to bigger and better things.  Here’s a look back in photos.

Yup, that's us
Tommy, Jim & Johnny
Galakowitz was incredibly funny in the fall of '94
Jody and her John
MJ & Brian look the same, Nancy & Mike, not so much

Sunday, October 5, 2014

The month when I really hate pink



First, lots of positive. Thanks to everyone who’s joined me doing Chalene Johnson’s 30 Day Challenge.  I’m on day 15 setting some great goals and some mind-blowing goals.  And best of all…following through.  One goal in particular is a lot fewer doctor appointments in 2015.  I’m feeling great and love the support and accountability of having others play along in the Challenge.      
 

Speaking of doctor appointments; I received the results from my echo-cardiogram. The test showed my heart is “grossly normal.”  What idiot who cares nothing about the patient psyche comes up with these terms?  But anyway I guess I'll take grossly normal over the alternatives.  The bottom line is further evidence that the chemotherapy did not damage my heart.  On Friday I had my follow-up full body thermography scan (the first was in June).  All my hard work and restrictive diets have helped.  Everything looked better on this scan except for my liver….so one appointment leads to another. 

Finally, the Former Boyfriend and I are dreading Pinktober.  After everything we’ve gone through we believe this to be nothing but hype. We’re sick of pink ribbons and pink-washing of everything.  Pink is slapped on anything for a buck and it’s impossible to find out just how much of that money goes into research, if any.  Pink is runaway…and does not represent what it once did in the fight against breast cancer.  If any of you give to any of the “pink” causes – it’s your money. But please do not give to pink causes with me in mind.